“How could you?”
The shrieking wail ~ transmuting pain from a betrayed heart to the ears of the unfaithful.
Finding out that you’re on the receiving end of intimate betrayal is one of the most devastating experiences any person can face. Being the person who has shattered the heart of the one they love is equally gut wrenching.
In fact, I would go as far as saying that the only thing worse—would be losing a child.
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As a seasoned counselor specializing in infidelity recovery, I bring a unique blend of professional expertise and personal insight to support individuals navigating the aftermath of betrayal.
Graduating with a Diploma in Counselling from the Australian Institute of Family Counselling, I have honed my skills through specialized certifications including Levels 1, 2, & 3 of Dr Omar Minwallas Deceptive Sexuality Trauma Treatment the Multi Dimensional Partner Trauma Model Training, APSATS CCPS Full Therapeutic Disclosure Guide Training, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Treating Affairs and Trauma, Couples and Addiction Recovery, Root Cause Therapy, Trauma Informed Coaching and Embodied Processing.
My journey into this field is deeply personal. Having endured over three decades of betrayal within my own marriage, chronicled in my memoir “Beyond Betrayal 28 Years, Lies-Deceit-Infidelity,” I intimately understand the complexities and emotional turmoil associated with infidelity. Back in 1993, there was scant support available for affair recovery, which spurred my determination to integrate lived experience with professional tools to assist others in healing from similar wounds.
Whether guiding couples through reconciliation or supporting individuals in their personal recovery journey, my approach is anchored in empathy, understanding, and a commitment to comprehensive healing. Recognizing the profound impact of infidelity on all parties involved, I offer a safe space and practical strategies tailored to each client’s unique circumstances.
If you are seeking compassionate guidance and effective support from someone who has not only studied but lived through the challenges of infidelity recovery, I invite you to connect with me. Together, we can navigate this journey towards healing and restoration.
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“You don’t have to preserve your pain to prove that it was real.” Brittany Burgunder.
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